
Vol. 75, No. 5, May 
2002
Collaborative Divorce and Malpractice: A Debate
A malpractice lawyer's view: The contract between 
the collaborative divorce lawyer and the other spouse creates 
malpractice risks. The collaborative divorce argument: 
working together, family law practitioners can surmount technical 
challenges and substantive concerns about the collaborative process.
 
Malpractice Risks of Collaborative Divorce
by Gary M. Young 
Proponents of collaborative divorce (CD) call it "a new paradigm for 
divorce lawyers."1 But despite CD's 
admirable goals, Wisconsin divorce lawyers must beware, because CD 
threatens to be a new paradigm for legal malpractice.2 The CD lawyer walks a tightrope, trying to 
balance conflicting duties to two spouses with conflicting interests. 
This article explains the CD lawyer's dilemma and shows how it arises 
from essential features of collaborative divorce. Full 
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Collaborative Divorce is a Proven, Ethical Solution
by the Collaborative Family Law Council of Wisconsin 
It is critical to recognize the inherent paradox in "family law." The 
unique aspect of divorce cases is that once loving family relationships 
end in the litigation system, with toxic lawsuits and devastated 
children. Full 
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Collaborative process, itself, doesn't lead to malpractice
by Daniel R. Cross & Jolene D. Schneider 
In collaborative divorce, there is no direct professional 
relationship to the other spouse. In the actual CD process, each party 
knows which attorney is theirs. There is no blurring of the 
attorney-client relationship. Full 
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Gary M. Young, U.W. 1978, 
practices law in Madison and teaches professional liability and legal 
writing at the U.W. Law School. The author is grateful to attorney Linda 
Roberson for comments and suggestions. The author also profited from the 
comments of participants at the seminar on Ethics of Collaborative 
Divorce at the April 27, 2001, meeting of the Wisconsin Chapter of the 
American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers, where a short early draft of 
this article was presented. Neither attorney Roberson nor any other 
academy member is responsible for the views in this article.
 
Malpractice Risks of Collaborative Divorce
by Gary M. Young
Proponents of collaborative divorce (CD) call it "a new paradigm for 
divorce lawyers."1 But despite CD's 
admirable goals, Wisconsin divorce lawyers must beware, because CD 
threatens to be a new paradigm for legal malpractice.2 The CD lawyer walks a tightrope, trying to 
balance conflicting duties to two spouses with conflicting interests. 
This article explains the CD lawyer's dilemma and shows how it arises 
from essential features of collaborative divorce.
 
Three documents structure the CD 
process.3 First, each spouse signs a 
retention agreement with his or her own lawyer.4 Second, both spouses and both lawyers sign a 
Stipulation for Participation in Collaborative Law Process (the CL 
Stipulation).5 The CL Stipulation refers to 
a third document, the Principles and Guidelines for the Practice of 
Collaborative Law (CL Principles), which the four participants also 
sign.6 These documents commit CD lawyers to 
four obligations they would not otherwise have.
The Four Obligations of CD Lawyers
1) The CD lawyer's duty not to represent either spouse in an 
adversarial proceeding. The central goal of collaborative 
divorce is to avoid an adversary divorce proceeding. "[T]he essence of 
`Collaborative Law' is the shared belief by participants that it is in 
the best interests of parties and their families in typical family law 
matters to commit themselves to avoiding litigation."7 The 
primary means to avoid litigation is to disqualify CD counsel from 
representing either spouse in an adversary proceeding. The CD retention 
agreement provides that the attorney "will not represent [the spouse] in 
any family law litigation against [the other spouse] should the 
Collaborative Process end before settlement."8
The CL Stipulation and CL Principles then turn this agreement between 
lawyer and spouse into a four-way agreement among all four CD 
participants: "[N]either of our lawyers can ever represent us in court 
in a proceeding against the other spouse."9 
In particular, the CD lawyer makes this contractual commitment to the 
"other" spouse - the spouse with whom the lawyer does not have a 
retention agreement. This is the first sign of the serious malpractice 
risks that lie ahead.
Proponents of CD say the disqualification provision gives all 
participants an incentive not to resort to an adversary 
proceeding.10 It gives counsel a reason to 
continue the CD process, because when the process ends, so does CD 
counsel's involvement in (and remuneration from) the case. It gives the 
spouses an economic incentive to stick with the CD process, because if 
they abandon CD, they must begin again with new counsel, with the 
attendant duplication of time, effort, and costs. "In other words, in 
collaborative law as in no other dispute-resolution modality, the risks 
and costs of failure are distributed to the lawyers as well as the 
clients."11
2) The CD lawyer's duty to withdraw. "[O]ur 
collaborative law attorney will withdraw from a case and/or will 
terminate the collaborative law process as soon as possible upon 
learning that his or her client has withheld or misrepresented 
information or otherwise acted so as to undermine or take unfair 
advantage of the collaborative law process," including "failure to 
participate in the spirit of the collaborative process."12 This commitment requires that "collaborative law 
counsel will withdraw if they mistrust the good faith of their 
own clients."13 Withdrawal will entail 
retaining new counsel for at least one spouse - and for both if the 
withdrawal precipitates an adversary proceeding. Proponents of CD say 
this provision gives the spouses an incentive to act in good faith and 
participate in the spirit of CD.14
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3) The CD lawyer's duty to disclose. Clients may 
waive the right of confidentiality,15 and 
in a CD proceeding each spouse must do just that. In the retention 
agreement, the spouse gives up "the right to formally object to 
producing any documents or to providing any information to the other 
side that [the spouse's lawyer] determine[s] is appropriate."16 The spouse authorizes the lawyer "to fully 
disclose all information which in [the lawyer's] discretion must be 
provided to [the other] spouse and his or her lawyer."17 In the four-way agreement, the participants then 
"agree to give full, honest, and open disclosure of all information, 
whether requested or not."18
4) The CD lawyer's duty to correct others' mistakes. 
The four CD participants agree that they will "maintain a high standard 
of integrity and specifically shall not take advantage of each other or 
of the miscalculations or inadvertent mistakes of others, but shall 
identify and correct them."19 Suppose you 
are the wife's lawyer. You know that the husband plans to sell certain 
property after the divorce, and that his lawyer believes that he will 
have no adverse tax consequences from that sale. You know that a recent 
change in the law imposes significant tax obligations upon the husband 
if he sells that property. CD obligates you to disclose that information 
to the husband and his attorney. Doing otherwise would "undermine" the 
CD process and violate its "spirit."
Together, the duty to disclose and the duty to correct mistakes give 
each participant a contractual right to all relevant information, both 
factual and legal, that any other participant has.
The CD Lawyer's Contract Liability to the Other Spouse
As a CD lawyer, you are answerable to the other spouse in both 
contract and tort. Contract is obvious. Under the CL Stipulation and CL 
Principles, you have four contractual obligations to the other spouse. 
If you breach any of those obligations, the other spouse can sue you for 
breach of contract. Few if any legal malpractice policies cover breach 
of contract claims. You must reserve for them.
Moreover, if the other spouse sues his or her own lawyer for, say, 
negligent tax advice, then either of them can join you as a defendant: 
You have a contract with both, and promised to correct their errors. Any 
malpractice action against one CD lawyer will ensnare the other.
The CD Lawyer's Liability for Negligence: Both Spouses are 
Clients
CD puts more than contractual liability into play. In Wisconsin, an 
essential element of a legal malpractice (negligence) claim is the 
plaintiff's attorney-client relation with the defendant lawyer.20 CD makes both spouses your clients. You are 
vulnerable to malpractice claims by either spouse.
Suppose the husband is the other spouse. You have promised that you 
will disclose to him all factual and legal information relevant to the 
divorce; that you will correct any relevant factual or legal errors he 
makes; that you will not disclose any information he gives you, at least 
without his informed consent; and that you will not represent the wife 
in any litigation against him. In short, you have offered to provide 
legal services to the husband, and in the four-way agreements he has 
accepted your offer.
Offer, acceptance, and consideration: The husband has promised to pay 
for your services. In the CL Principles both spouses affirm that both 
lawyers must be paid for their services, "and that the first 
task in a collaborative matter is to ensure parity of payment to 
each of them. We agree to make funds available for this 
purpose."21 And even if only the wife, not 
the husband, agreed to pay you, the husband could enforce the agreement 
against you.22
You and the husband have entered into an enforceable agreement in 
which you promise to provide professional legal advice to him for pay. 
Any person to whom you render professional legal services is your 
client.23 The husband is therefore your 
client. Both spouses are your clients.
The CD documents try to negate this conclusion, but fail. According 
to the CL Principles, "[e]ach of our attorneys ... represents only one 
party in our collaborative marital dissolution process."24 The CL Stipulation states similarly that 
"(petitioner's lawyer) has been retained by petitioner to advise 
petitioner during the course of this proceeding; (respondent's lawyer) 
has been retained by respondent to advise respondent during the course 
of this proceeding."25 But these general 
statements cannot negate your plainly stated, specific, contractual 
duties to the other spouse, the duties that make the other spouse your 
client. Familiar rules of contract interpretation support this result, 
among them the admonitions to give meaning and effect to all contract 
terms; to give greater weight to specific language than to general; and 
to construe ambiguities against the drafter,26 who is here a lawyer, with a fiduciary duty to 
clients.27
CD's Fatal Ethical Flaw: Unavoidable Conflict of Interest
Because the other spouse is your client, you owe that spouse not 
merely what you have expressly promised in the CL Stipulation and CL 
Principles, but everything else you would owe any other client: 
competence, diligence, confidentiality, and loyalty. This creates a 
fatal ethical problem. The two spouses have adverse interests. You may 
represent the two spouses only if you reasonably believe the 
representation will not adversely affect your relationship with either 
spouse, and both spouses consent to dual representation after 
consultation.28 You cannot meet either of 
these requirements.
First, "a lawyer cannot reasonably believe that the representation 
will not be adversely affected ... where the lawyer is representing 
opposing parties in negotiating a contract for the sale of property or 
in negotiating the settlement of a law suit"29 - representation indistinguishable from that of 
both spouses in CD.
Second, because you cannot reasonably believe that representation 
will not adversely affect the spouses, you may not even request their 
consent.30 Spousal consent, even if 
informed, cannot cure dual representation's conflict of interest. 
Moreover, spousal consent to dual representation cannot be informed.
A Spouse's General, Open-ended Consent to CD is Ineffective
Consent to dual representation means consent to the CD lawyer's four 
duties to the other spouse. The duties of disqualification and 
withdrawal limit the scope of representation and so require the spouse's 
consent after consultation.31 The duties to 
disclose and to correct errors also require consent after 
consultation.32 "Consultation" is the 
"communication of information reasonably sufficient to permit the client 
to appreciate the significance of the matter in question."33
But the CD lawyer cannot disclose information reasonably sufficient 
to permit the retaining spouse to appreciate the significance of the 
duties to the other spouse. CD requires the spouse to consent at the 
start of the engagement, when the lawyer can give the spouse only vague, 
general, open-ended descriptions of what is at stake.
The ABA Ethics 2000 Commission has addressed the similar problem of 
antecedent blanket waivers of conflicts of interest under Model Rule 
1.7. The commission concluded: "If the consent is general and openended, 
then the consent ordinarily will be ineffective, because it is not 
reasonably likely that the client will have understood the material 
risks involved."34 Similarly, the 
Restatement concludes: "Client consent to conflicts that might arise in 
the future is subject to special scrutiny, particularly if the consent 
is general. A client's open-ended agreement to consent to all 
conflicts normally should be ineffective unless the client 
possesses sophistication in the matter in question and has had the 
opportunity to receive independent legal advice about the 
consent."35 The same reasoning shows that 
spousal consent to CD is ineffective.
Suppose you have a retention agreement with the wife in a CD 
proceeding. She tells you that after she gets divorced from the husband, 
she is going to marry her high school boyfriend. Her husband does not 
know of her plan to remarry. You tell her this information is relevant 
to the issues the CD negotiations will address, so she must disclose it 
to the husband and the other lawyer. She refuses. You remind her that 
she has waived confidentiality, that she gave her written consent to 
disclosure of all information. She replies that you never told her she 
was giving up her right to make confidential plans about what she would 
do after the divorce, and if you had told her, she would have refused. 
Is her consent effective?
According to the CD agreements, the wife has waived confidentiality 
with respect to information that you determine is appropriate to 
disclose to the other side, information that you in your discretion 
determine must be provided to the other spouse and other attorney, and 
all relevant information. These vacuous descriptions are not reasonably 
sufficient to permit her to appreciate that she will have to disclose 
her plan to remarry. They provide no basis for consent after 
consultation to disclose her plan.
Perhaps you could add more language to the CD documents, so they 
unmistakably require the wife to disclose her plans to remarry. Imagine 
that you could even tell her completely and unambiguously all the 
information she might ever need to disclose, under any conceivable 
circumstances. Even on this unlikely assumption, the wife's antecedent 
blanket consent to disclosure would not be effective. You still would 
not know what information she in fact has to disclose, the specific 
circumstances under which she would need to disclose this information, 
or the risks disclosure and nondisclosure would create for her in those 
circumstances. While you might acquire this knowledge later in the 
engagement, you would not have it at the start, when you need it. 
Without this knowledge, you cannot adequately explain, and the wife 
cannot understand, the material risks involved. Her consent is not 
effective.36 Spousal consent to dual 
representation cannot be informed.
The CD lawyer therefore faces two obstacles to dual representation: 
First, spousal consent to dual representation, no matter how informed, 
cannot cure the CD lawyer's conflict of interest. Second, spousal 
consent to dual representation cannot be informed. "Dual representation 
would be improper even when both spouses appear to be in agreement as to 
a pending dissolution action, because the duties, rights, and 
responsibilities of marriage are such that the probabilities of genuine 
and unrevealed `differing interests' remain high."37
Under current Wisconsin law, it is doubtful that your client's 
malpractice counsel or expert legal witness may cite to the SCR 
provisions that underlie this reasoning.38 
But the expert witness may testify in accord with those provisions, and 
that testimony is enough to show that you failed to comply with the 
standard of care.
The CD Lawyer Walks a Tightrope
If you fail to disclose the wife's plan to remarry, you have breached 
your contractual promise to the husband. If you do disclose, you have 
breached your duty of confidentiality to the wife - unless the wife's 
supposed blanket antecedent consent is informed and informed consent can 
cure your conflict of interest, assumptions no risk-averse lawyer should 
make. You're damned if you do and damned if you don't. You've stepped 
onto the tightrope, and found you cannot balance your conflicting duties 
to the spouses. Whatever you do - disclose or not - one spouse or the 
other will feel aggrieved. If enough is at stake, the aggrieved spouse 
will sue you and report you to the disciplinary board. Attempting to 
avoid an adversary court proceeding, CD imports the adversary relation 
into your own professional obligations, committing you to serve two 
adverse masters at once.
One of the accompanying sidebars suggests that when you find yourself 
in this dilemma, you should simply withdraw from representation, and 
that will cure your ethical problem. SCR 20:1.16, relating to Declining 
and Terminating Representation, does not permit you to withdraw whenever 
you wish, however, and the sidebar does not explain why you may back out 
now.
In any event, withdrawal would come too late. Before you quit, you 
knew you had information that the CD agreements obligated you to 
disclose to the other spouse. Hoping to duck that obligation, you 
decided not to disclose, but instead to quit. Your refusal to disclose 
is a breach of your obligation, and quitting will not undo or excuse 
that breach. You should not have stepped onto the tightrope to begin 
with.
Conclusion
The malpractice risks and dilemmas described here arise from the four 
duties the CD lawyer owes the other spouse and other lawyer. To rid 
ourselves of those risks and dilemmas, we must eliminate those duties. 
Then each lawyer will have one client, and owe that client, and no one 
else, the ordinary ethical and common law obligations of an 
attorney.
Those ordinary obligations still permit divorce lawyers to cooperate 
in formal and informal discovery, plan and participate in four-way 
meetings with both spouses to arrive at settlement, encourage clients to 
engage in interest-based negotiations, and in general adopt methods to 
help the spouses resolve their differences without a contested trial. 
Responsible divorce lawyers already use these methods to the extent the 
rules of professional conduct (and clients) permit. These methods 
arguably work at least as well in ordinary divorce practice as in CD 
(though CD proponents say otherwise39), and 
in any event, their use does not presuppose the ethically fatal 
commitments a CD lawyer must make to the other spouse and lawyer.
There is no citable evidence yet that CD's malpractice risks have 
materialized. A search for "collaborative divorce" in Allcases on 
Westlaw in March 2002 failed to disclose any citations. But CD is 
practiced in few states, is just over a decade old, and in Wisconsin is 
only two years old. It's still early days for CD.
The goals of collaborative divorce are admirable; no wonder CD 
appeals to lawyers disgusted with incivility and destructive combat. 
Perhaps before it is too late, CD proponents will find some way to 
remove the malpractice risks CD methods create. But if the foregoing 
reasoning has any merit, this will not be an easy task, and a cautious 
lawyer will think twice before engaging in CD. When you step onto the 
tightrope, you are asking for trouble.
Endnotes
1 Pauline H. 
Tesler, Collaborative Law: A New Paradigm for Divorce Lawyers, 
5 Psych. Pub. Pol'y & L. 967 (1999) ("New Paradigm").
2 The conclusions 
in this article rely specifically on Wisconsin law. This article does 
not address whether these conclusions apply in any other 
jurisdiction.
3 Collaborative 
divorce has no canonical literature. Closest to canonical are the 
writings of attorney Pauline Tesler, an articulate, informed, spirited 
advocate of CD, and this article draws upon her descriptions of CD and 
model CD agreements. In addition to New Paradigm, see Pauline 
H. Tesler, Collaborative Law: Achieving Effective Resolution in 
Divorce without Litigation (Chicago: American Bar Association, 
2001) ("Collaborative Law"); Collaborative Law: What It Is 
and Why Family Law Attorneys Need to Know About It, 13 Am. J. Fam. 
L. 215 (1999); and The Believing Game, the Doubting Game, and 
Collaborative Law: A Reply to Penelope Bryan, 5 Psych. Pub. Pol'y 
& L. 1018 (1999). Statements by Wisconsin CD proponents agree in all 
essentials with the views set forth in attorney Tesler's writings. See, 
for example, the materials at the Collaborative Family Law 
Council of Wisconsin Inc.
4 "Collaborative 
Law Retainer Agreement," Collaborative Law, at 137-42.
5 "Stipulation for 
Participation in Collaborative Law Process" ("CL Stipulation"), 
Collaborative Law, at 146-51. See also Appendix A, 
New Paradigm.
6 "Principles and 
Guidelines for the Practice of Collaborative Law" ("CL Principles"), 
Collaborative Law, at 143-45.
7 CL Principles, 
"I. Goals," Collaborative Law, at 143.
8 
Collaborative Law, at 138.
9 CL Principles, 
"X. Disqualification by Court Intervention," Collaborative Law, 
at 145. See also CL Stipulation sections, "Lawyer Representation" and 
"Collaborative Law Matter," Collaborative Law, at 146, 147.
10 New 
Paradigm, at 976.
11Collaborative Law, at 4.
12 CL 
Principles, "IX. Abuse of the Collaborative Process," Collaborative 
Law, at 145 (emphasis added).
13 New 
Paradigm, at 979 (emphasis added); see also 
Collaborative Law, at 138.
14 New 
Paradigm, at 976.
15 SCR 
20:1.6(a); Wis. Stat. § 905.11.
16 
Collaborative Law, at 138.
17 
Id.
18 CL 
Principles, "II. No Court or Other Intervention," Collaborative 
Law, at 143. See also CL Stipulation, "Disclosure and 
Discovery," Collaborative Law, at 149.
19 CL 
Principles, "V. Participation with Integrity," Collaborative 
Law, at 144; see also 78 ("transparency") and 99.
20 This privity 
requirement has an exception, inapplicable here: In the estate planning 
context, lawyers may be liable for negligence to nonclient intended 
beneficiaries. For the privity requirement and this exception, see 
Auric v. Continental Casualty Co., 111 Wis. 2d 507, 331 N.W.2d 
325 (1983); Anderson v. McBurney, 160 Wis. 2d 866, 467 N.W.2d 
158 (Ct. App. 1991); Beauchamp v. Kemmeter, 2001 WI App 5, 240 
Wis. 2d 733, 625 N.W.2d 297. The exception is permissible because it 
does not create any conflict between interests of the nonclient and 
those of the client (the client intends to benefit the nonclient). 
Auric, 111 Wis. 2d at 513.
21 CL 
Principles, "IV. Lawyer's Fees and Costs," Collaborative Law, 
at 144 (emphasis added).
22 Durand 
West Inc. v. Milwaukee Western Bank, 61 Wis. 2d 454, 460, 213 
N.W.2d 20 (1973) ("Generally speaking, if consideration is sufficient 
for a contract in other respects, it does not matter from or to whom it 
moves. The consideration may move to the promisor or a third person, and 
may be given by the promisee or a third person....").
23 Wis. Stat. 
§ 905.03(1)(a).
24 "VIII. 
Negotiation in Good Faith," Collaborative Law, at 144.
25 "Lawyer 
Representation," Collaborative Law, at 146.
26 For these 
rules of construction, see Richard J. Sankovitz, "Contract 
Interpretation and the Parol Evidence Rule," chapter 5 in Michael B. 
Apfeld et al., Contract Law in Wisconsin 2d ed. (Madison, WI: 
State Bar of Wisconsin CLE Books, 2000).
27 Thiery v. 
Bye, 228 Wis. 2d 231, 241, 597 N.W.2d 449 (Ct. App. 1999).
28 SCR 
20:1.7(a).
29 SCR 20:1.7, 
Comment, "Loyalty to a Client"; Gustafson v. Physicians Ins. 
Co., 223 Wis. 2d 164, 177, 588 N.W.2d 363 (Ct. App. 1998) (attorney 
representing medical malpractice plaintiff denied he also represented 
plaintiff's subrogated health insurer in post-trial settlement 
negotiations; court of appeals held he represented both and therefore 
had conflict of interest under SCR 20:1.7).
30 SCR 20:1.7, 
Comment, "Consultation and Consent."
31 SCR 
20:1.2(c).
32 SCR 
20:1.6.
33 SCR 20, 
Preamble.
34 Ethics 2000 
February 2002 Report No. 401 (as passed by the ABA House of Delegates 
Feb. 5, 2002), Rule 1.7, Comment [22], "Consent to 
Future Conflict." This comment is available at . For further 
discussion of blanket waivers of conflicts, see Dean R. Dietrich, 
Waivers of Future Conflicts of Interest May Be Valid, 74 Wis. 
Law. 24-25 (May 2001).
35 
Restatement (Third) of Law Governing Lawyers 
§ 122, comment d (1998) (emphasis added).
36 
Collaborative Law addresses this issue at 189, but begs the 
question by assuming that "you have done a good job of explaining the 
collaborative law process at the front end."
37 State Bar 
Committee on Professional Ethics, Formal Op. E84-3 (1984) (opining that 
"it would be improper for an attorney to represent both spouses in a 
divorce proceeding"). No formal opinion has addressed this issue since 
Jan. 1, 1988, when the Rules of Professional Conduct replaced the Code 
of Professional Ethics. The "genuine differing interests" in Formal Op. 
E84-3 appear as "adverse interests" in SCR 20:1.7 and its Comments.
38 Peck v. 
Meda-Care Ambulance Corp., 156 Wis. 2d 662, 673, 457 N.W.2d 538 
(Ct. App. 1990).
39 
E.g., Collaborative Law, at 83-84 ("conventional civil 
litigators, steeped in the dance of Mediterranean marketplace 
bargaining, rarely engage in" interest-based bargaining) and 229 
("traditional lawyers generally" are "dedicated to getting the largest 
possible piece of the pie for their own client, no matter the human or 
financial cost").
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